Robert Waldinger: What makes a good life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness | TED

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    What keeps us happy and healthy as we go through life? If you think it's fame and money, you're not alone - but, according to psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, you're mistaken. As the director of 75-year-old study on adult development, Waldinger has unprecedented access to data on true happiness and satisfaction. In this talk, he shares three important lessons learned from the study as well as some practical, old-as-the-hills wisdom on how to build a fulfilling, long life.

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openureyes2thetruth1
openureyes2thetruth1

If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. Lao Tzu

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Lucifer Adam
Lucifer Adam

Good. Where did you see this

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Patrick Burlet-Parendel
Patrick Burlet-Parendel

Bien aux personnes qui prennent conscience et entretiennent amour et lucidité, face aux spéculations qui dépassent la raison commune. Pat. C.O.S.M.A.Ü.S. 🙏❤🧡💛🤍💚💙💜🙏🌠 🌹✝️♥️

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eldhose issac
eldhose issac

We are really lucky if we are in company of good Sincere people or relationships..

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Silvana Lanzieri
Silvana Lanzieri

"Não há tempo, tão curta é a vida para discussões banais, desculpas, amarguras, tirar satisfações. Só há tempo para amar, e mesmo para isto, é só um instante." Mark Twing

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Poul Julle
Poul Julle

puuussseeeey

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brain to body
brain to body

2 crore plus view for good but general advice of 80s ... world is going through serious problems dude 😂 .....this is just emoji smiling me not

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believer
believer

"I am the way, the Truth and the life"- Jesus said, whoever believes in him will be saved, because God so loved the world that gave him, Jesus, as a perfect sacrifice for our sins, because we all are imperfect and sinners, and cannot enter to Heaven by our goodness. That's why Jesus, long promised Messiah and external God came to us and he bore our sins, iniquities and transgrettions and infirmities on himself and died on our behalf for us, redeeming us from curse(Galatians 2:13) so that we in him will live as forgiven, redeemed, atoned for, sanctified and cleansed children of God in his love and family, in Heaven where there is no death, no grief, no evil - but all the highest good which spiritual people desire. Just believe, repent and confess to God that you are a sinner and he is faithful to forgive you, all the work of salvation is done by Jesus, just accept it... and live the eternal life in God's love)))) Jesus is the Messiah of Israel and the true Lord of the world who will come and reign.

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Goutham kumar G
Goutham kumar G

I wil be rich famous and be great at relationships(wink )

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FBI
FBI

I hate feeling lonely but I love being alone Huge difference

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Britain Covey
Britain Covey

“Life isn’t about accumulation. It’s about contribution.” -Stephen R Covey

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G Life
G Life

KEY: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. The good life is built with good relationships.

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Agrina
Agrina

Nice speech, i literaly crying

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dina brown
dina brown

So, the most important tips are: 📍the social connection (loneliness really kills. but it’s not the number of friends and the existence of marriage or just relationships. It’s about the quality!!! good relationship is protection for ours brains! 🧠 🧠 )

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Joao Nunes
Joao Nunes

Hey, if Im gonna be miserable anyways thank god Im getting a shorter lifespan! :D

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Jawahar Dr
Jawahar Dr

LONELINESS IS THE ULTIMATE LUXURY ,PERIOD

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Steven Lopes
Steven Lopes

How do we know that forcing ourselves to build better relationships helps us to avoid memory loss and avoid being unhappy, can it be the opposite ? i wonder if certain biological factors which incline people to develop dementia (and therefore memory loss and mood swings and depression etc ..) would prevent them from being able to build good social relations. Which is the cause and which is the effect ?

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Ram Graphic designer
Ram Graphic designer

One of the main reason why people are happy is quality of air.

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ShutterPunk - Walks through Night City
ShutterPunk - Walks through Night City

The Office times 9999 xD

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Camila Haux
Camila Haux

I wonder what the result would have been like if this study had been done among women.

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rizza mae ong
rizza mae ong

i love this TED Talk. i keep rewatching 5x a year.

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s parks
s parks

Men, white men

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reem sohib
reem sohib

I never been good with people. I reach out but they are never interessted. I always feel lonely

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Jagbeer Singh
Jagbeer Singh

All I deeply want is to be kind to each other while interacting,it's not about you, it's about us :)

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Cer3alex _
Cer3alex _

Idk I just feel like the more I know the happier I am, obviously relationships are essential but I feel I've got that settled

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LuisFer306
LuisFer306

The more you try to understand life... the more you get frustrated...

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Namra نمرہ ھاشمی
Namra نمرہ ھاشمی

Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, let him keep good relations with his family.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2067, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2557

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Kristina L.
Kristina L.

❤️

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Hanspal Chaudhary
Hanspal Chaudhary

I will get a 4.8 GPA I will get into boys state I will get into UC Berkeley for computer science I will be remembered

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Tatielle Jorge
Tatielle Jorge

Wooooooooooow, so inspiring!!!

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Professor DR ABHIJIT SAYAMBER MD withme##Pulmonolo
Professor DR ABHIJIT SAYAMBER MD withme##Pulmonolo

Om shanti

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KORVIN STEELO
KORVIN STEELO

Record videos of your family members record there voices and their physical presence you can thank me later in your blessings

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Bashir Issack
Bashir Issack

Man can have all the material and relationships in this world but if he dosent have God in his life it's as if he has nothing in this life💚💛❤

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Dre Shoe Cooking
Dre Shoe Cooking

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Milos Zivkovic
Milos Zivkovic

Answer why we have “Covid pandemic”

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Kat R
Kat R

10:10 summary of the video

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Pilar Serrano
Pilar Serrano

I cannot understand and I do not agree with science that has been generated without women. A study that only includes men, really? Do you think it's good science?

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Selvi Selvi
Selvi Selvi

Good amazing study...

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Revenant Wolzart
Revenant Wolzart

Amazing commitment for a great cause

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Jobs Steve
Jobs Steve

So sad i am lonely, i don't even have a real friend.

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riesl
riesl

This guy makes me smile just by talking

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How To do it
How To do it

For me spirituality is number one, what gives me hope, happiness and reason to live when depressed is the belief in god.

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Black Knight
Black Knight

And what if i won't met someone for me? Is like a kid try to reach something imposible

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Relaxing Music - Sleep, Study, Meditation
Relaxing Music - Sleep, Study, Meditation

🎶Music for soul and peace of mind. Relaxing music is here 💆‍♀️

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Brittany Shaw
Brittany Shaw

I don’t like that the study was all men. What about what makes women happy? 😥

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E
E

I want to be rich 🤑 financial wealth is very important to me it’ll grant me my freedom quite literally since I am a woman living in some oppressive society in the Middle East and I will enjoy the journey to achieving that amen 🙏🏻 💪🏻

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K Forest
K Forest

Never once thought happiness was fame and money I came from real people. Own worst enemy is the self when it follows too much no independent state of mind.

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Dante Paperinosky
Dante Paperinosky

A lot of health, a lot of money and stop....

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Ludi-Chris309
Ludi-Chris309

Good relationships are the key to happiness? Guess I'm screwed then 🙃

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Pia Love
Pia Love

You are responsible for making yourself happy! Dont forget that😀

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Mary M
Mary M

My life goal is happiness, peace, serenity, and finding your life's purpose

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Madina G.
Madina G.

"Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, but now is a gift , That's why it is called present " -Master Oogway

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QueenKobraXX
QueenKobraXX

Well first not trying to be judgemental but it took 75 years to find this out? I could have told you that in less than my 45 years by looking at how once people retire or lose a long term spouse or put in a home have quickly declining health and die earlier! And no I do not have even a 2 year college degree! They pay people to do this??? I should be so much better off than I am! You can't lean into relationships when you're alone because you don't fit into the social construct of America. When you aren't "normal". It's almost impossible to make friends, close friends, when you're a grown adult.

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Secularanarchist
Secularanarchist

A good life is built with relationships, however there are other studies that show that people, who remain single all their lives, are among the happiest. They also live the longest. There are two cohorts, those who are in a happy life-long relationship and those who remain unattached. Both are shown to have the most satisfied and long lives. Divorcees, especially those who get remarried, tend to fare more poorly.

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Gwyn English Nielsen
Gwyn English Nielsen

Happiness has little to do with the material world. If you are looking for true happiness, connect with the writings of the Dalai Lama and then you will discover it. The relationship you have with yourself is more important than the relationships you have with others. Loneliness is a state of mind. If you are a spiritual person, you already know that you are never alone. You don't experience loneliness. I agree that sharing with others is important and doing for others is also imperative, but positive relationships alone will not make you happy if you are not happy with yourself.

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urmanascrewed
urmanascrewed

It seems so hard to make friends and harder to maintain the friendship

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orbitring
orbitring

Happiness comes from within . . . not from without !

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DJ Huang
DJ Huang

But isn't people relationship also creates all sorts of problems? I would say a good relationship to self, to nature can be a good replacement for the one with all others.

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Bandstand91
Bandstand91

It is totally true in these days. people no matter how they look? we are the same, we need to love and be loved. I love the order of this speech: family - Friends and community. Quality is the priority. we do not to have too much people in your life but you have to have the best in your mind

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Karthik KD
Karthik KD

Let's hope people will give more importance to relationships and other peoples after understanding this ....😊 Edit : To the good ones Im saying😁

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Christopher Higgins
Christopher Higgins

Surround yourself with people that will visit you on your deathbed, not the ones that will come to your wedding.

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khalikea
khalikea

The real question is who decides what makes a good life? What is the purpose of life? Is it to be happy? Is a happy life a good life? It only makes sense that we ask these questions to The Creator of life.

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noor
noor

He's absolutely wrong,

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Gurleen Kaur
Gurleen Kaur

This is a complete masterpiece

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Dot Chen
Dot Chen

I love this talk and I love the study. I share it with friends all the time. Real relationships are extremely assuring, powerful and restoring. Thanks for this!

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Hannah Nunnally
Hannah Nunnally

"Replacing screen time with people time" 💯

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jineesh antony
jineesh antony

impressive talk.....like it

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V Mtz
V Mtz

Wow! This is a “discovery”? Not to be a chauvinist, but I was brought up abroad and I’ve known this since I was a child.

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John D
John D

What I felt was important at age 20 was not important at age 40. What was important at age 40 was not important at age 60. The one lasting thing that was important all thru those years were the relations I made and the few friends I have made. Some people i have not talked to in several years. but when we do its like no time has passed. Relationships and Health matter the most

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주방의 향기 LalaSunny
주방의 향기 LalaSunny

Stop using SNS makes me happy.

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Dario Di Donato
Dario Di Donato

Thank you so much!

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Girish Aryal
Girish Aryal

Will or Desire is the source of suffering as per Eastern Philosophy.

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Ryan Nicolas
Ryan Nicolas

Were they happy during doing of the long research about happiness?

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sudeera de silva
sudeera de silva

යාලුවනේ ICT ඉගෙන ගන්න කැමති ඔයාල හමෝටම මේ Channel එක ගොඩක් ප්‍රයෝජනවත් වෙයි. ICT විශයට අදාල ගොඩක් කරුණු මේ එකේ තියෙනවා....

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Natalie Kim
Natalie Kim

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Anuska Sahukar
Anuska Sahukar

Amazing....wonderful I always wanted to know what made a good life, and this is the day I knew. Thank you so much for making me realize there is nothing greater than love, compassion and knowledge.

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Sagara Suranga
Sagara Suranga

For those who are introvert don’t like to socialise don’t worry keep building healthy relationships with yourself. That’s the most important thing.

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Sagara Suranga
Sagara Suranga

I don't think others can tell what makes you happy. You have to ask yourself what makes you happy and content because we are different.

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Jobs Steve
Jobs Steve

Can't agree more

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BASIC
BASIC

Essa palestra deu-me esperanças.

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Alejandro Caballero Salas
Alejandro Caballero Salas

which one was President?

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EvaSara Luna
EvaSara Luna

Why just men?

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craigzilla100
craigzilla100

I've allowed so many friends to be pushed away and it is absolutely a negative impact to my happiness.

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Shubhaksh Kumar
Shubhaksh Kumar

Now I know, why I will die early....

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황원
황원

Through the huge scale of study, I learned that the ultimate goal of life is to create good and healthy relationship. The lesson that good relationships protect not only our body but also protect our brain was very impressing. Taking enough time with my friends and family will help me grow healthier both physically and mentally. Good relationship is the true asset for my future.

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RELAXATION MOOD
RELAXATION MOOD

live the life

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MBW W
MBW W

Agree that chasing money, fame and status at the office are sad endeavors. But I think life satisfaction requires more than just “good relationships” - I feel best about myself when I’m doing the work and activities that I love, especially when they make a positive contribution to others.

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MBW W
MBW W

724 MEN. Hello!

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Keturah Spencer
Keturah Spencer

Yup, I'm dying young. 😢 Leaning into relationships looks like grief in the end.

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Greg Moore
Greg Moore

Crispy buds and gnarly waves.... Next?

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Evan Campbell
Evan Campbell

What a beautiful and profound presentation. Thank you to Professor Waldinger, and thank you to TED for recording and sharing this with us 😌

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Aditya Pawar
Aditya Pawar

The way he explains is very beautiful I wish he just keep talking 👍☺️

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Aditya Pawar
Aditya Pawar

❤️

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johnson張澤宇
johnson張澤宇

The most wonderful speech of all TED.

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ammata thammavongsa

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A. F.
A. F.

I'm here watching this mandatory video .... Army life 🤙

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Connie Rahakundini
Connie Rahakundini

Well prophet Muhammad ever said : ""Whoever likes to expand his sustenance and lengthen his life, let him continue the ties of kinship."

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Sad Boay
Sad Boay

🖤🖤🖤📌

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Seoulite
Seoulite

Great speech!

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Summer In Flow
Summer In Flow

6:12

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Thảo Tea
Thảo Tea

good life is built up with good relationships...

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Joshua Alexander
Joshua Alexander

Having a good relationship with God will make you extremely happy ranther than any other relationship.

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Dragos NC
Dragos NC

exactly, more than that people in these days are selfish and with own interests in others and not real love or friendship

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